Picking Travel Buddies
While some of us like travelling alone, most of us love to share the experience with friends. Travelling for
some is an absolute passion. Picking a travel buddy from among your friends or acquaintances is one option, and
this has become so much easier now that social media has opened up the opportunity to hunt down people with similar
travel interests.
Anybody who has experience travelling with a buddy or a group of buddies will have tons of advice to give. These
are a few tips that you might want to keep in mind and consider seriously before you randomly pick your travel
partner.
Remember, everybody is different and everybody’s preferences are different. My friend would travel to a whole
new country and then hit every bar and crash every party in town. I, on the other hand, might be more interested in
the museums, the history and the touristy places.
It is important to make note of what your interests are, what kind of trip you are planning, and choose your
partner accordingly. Travelling to Buddhist temples in Nepal with a party animal is a bad, bad idea. Be smart,
judge the person before you tag them along.
Friends don’t always make good travel buddies – a fact many travellers forget, or just choose to overlook. Yes,
your friend might want to badly go with you. But if you really think it would be a disaster and might end up
costing you the friendship, put your foot down.
Your budget. No travel plans can be made without a proper budget, unless you are Bill Gates. If you are on a
tight budget, consider someone who would not mind staying in economy hotels, or roughing it out generally.
The pampered kind will either make you bankrupt, or whine all through the travel, thoroughly ruining the
experience for you. If you are on a comfortable budget, make sure you either travel with someone who can spend as
lavishly as you can, or you have to be extremely adjusting and flexible.
However careful you are about who you travel with, compromises and adjustments have to be made. Travelling in
pairs or in a group has many benefits, and therefore needs some sacrifices too. Don’t be too stubborn and regard
the other person’s preferences too. You don’t have to do all that they want to do, but being adjusting will mean
you both have a happy trip.
Most importantly, be clear of what you want to do. Make sure your travel buddy also clearly outlines his
interests, so you both know what to expect.
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